What Is Love? Happy Valentine Day We have talked a lot about love, but Q hat is exactly the LOVE? Many will wonder why love arises between two people and why it arises with that person and with others not?
Love goes through several phases, since one knows the other person, until he decides to spend the rest of his life with her. Which does not mean we have to go through all those stages. Only those who are really destined for eternal love will pass or at least spend a few years together, starting from the initial idea that it will be a serious relationship.
What is love?
2-Sexual Attraction: inexplicable that without knowing why we need to be with that person, kiss her, touch her … For some everything begins and ends there.
They do not go beyond this purely physical phase. Testosterone and estrogens come through the nose and produce a drug addiction effect.
3- Passionate love : emotional involvement and leads to sexual desire. There the love intervenes, the want, the need to be with that person at all times, to see her, to talk to her. Here they act: dopamine, phenylethylamine, serotonin and norepinephrine.
4- Romantic love : as the relationship progresses enter this phase in which they share everything and comes a privacy including passing share everything in life.
Feel a worry about what might happen to you, total involvement in your life. They have a lot of affinity in their points of view, they share activities, the same tastes for certain things, they congenial and they share intellectually
5- Love and Commitment: is when after living these first 4 phases, takes convinced, although physical attraction decreases, the feeling of love, complicity, tenderness, raw life long commitment about anything. In this phase a hormone called oxytocin and vasopressin, makes us feel this need and certainty, that this is a love that will endure over time, regardless of the circumstances. Even sex can disappear, but love endures.
In the case of Internet relationships they are slower, but you can be reached in love with the “I like” intellectual exchange, emotional involvement and you can reach the obsession to meet that person, you can reach us Cause so much expectation. In those cases, the smell does not intervene, of course, but if we alter the hormones only with interacting with it.