Knowing a woman after a divorce is easier than most men think. The three reasons are: first, from a woman’s perspective, being divorced is always better than being separated. Secondly, if you confess your situation (we will explain it later), women find divorced men more attractive than single men. From the psychological point of view, it can be taboo to sleep with another woman’s man, and in many cases, divorced men are also much more experienced. Finally, women know that men would not like to fail again if they want a second marriage. If you try dating sites, keep in mind that 75-85 percent of women of all age ranges do not mind going out even with a separate man.
- The most important rule is NO LIE. There must not even be white lies in this situation. If the details of the divorce are not very pleasant and you were the cause of it, simply say “I would like to tell you the most important details later”. Let him digest everything with time. There will come a time when she will insist on the only thing you did not tell her, and there you will tell her. If it’s a bad thing like being unfaithful, just tell the truth and show repentance. If it is an abuse, you will have to be extremely sensitive and open to talking about it again. Obviously, there is a risk of losing everything being honest in these situations, but … do you have to pay for your crime, right? If you lie and she finds out, she will leave you instantly (this happens in most cases).
- Do not talk about your ex at all, unless I ask you something related to her.
- Some women do not like the idea of having children, others do not care and some even really like it. Do not lie about this.
- You have to be more convincing than a man not divorced when you say you will not return to your ex or call her again (except when it comes to your children, if you have any). To do this, present it to your close friends and your family. She will feel safe.
- If your ex is very attractive, you have to be more convincing about the appearance of your new partner. Focus on your personality or think of other qualities or ideas.
- Always try to feel that dating a divorced man is a more valuable option than dating an inexperienced guy.
- Do not make her feel uncomfortable in public. With the passage of time, she will forget the situation and feel comfortable.
- Try not to talk too much about your past relationship, since you would have to play many songs too soon.
- Always remember that if you can change and you want to build a future, you can do it.
- Lastly, do not make the same mistakes of your past relationship.
- There are always difficulties, even with single men. Do not be afraid to go out and try it.